I don't own one and never have but a friend of mine did and loved it. Only got rid of it because he moved to Australia. He is pretty particular too with his previous cars being a Range Rover, a Honda S2000, a 911, then the Ridgeline.
Dozer does it do ok in 4WD? They definitely look like the best bang for the buck. I have an 04 Totota Tacoma prerunner that is 2wd but has the locking rear diff. Looked at a 4wd Tacoma but to get the same thing the Ridgeline has I'm looking at about 35k compared to the Ridgeline RTS at 30K or the Sport at about 28k. I have already been quoted these prices on the Ridgeline.
Got a new one today and you are right can't find anything I dislike about it so far. I have pretty much owned nothing but trucks but this thing rides more like a car then a truck. I traded a Toyota prerunner and had planned to get a Tundra until I started looking at this thing.