Listening to the post game talk by the commentators of our games (I forget their names), they didn't seem happy about OU losing, (they were particularly sad for C Williams who they kept showing over and over again), and gave us a backhanded compliment about not having any first round draft picks.
BUT, their comments were ultimately complimentary and most importantly, they acknowledged that maybe it was time for new teams and new fanbases to be part of the playoff.
You could see it hurt them to admit it could be a positive for someone not in their club to play in their invitational , but they said it and it absolutely rings true.
If you ignore the media (I recommend this, in general, for anyone who wants to be happy), and you read the national CFB message boards, you will see that nearly everyone is very happy and excited that OU/OhioSt/Clemson will not be part of this year's playoff.